It’s a
universal question and a very tricky one. Do men and women really communicate?
On one level, they do, since you would find men and women completely
understanding each other. On the other hand, there are men and women,
particularly couples who are in a constant state of misunderstanding one
another, simply because one of the partners remains clueless as to what the
other wants to convey. In this case, it’s on the level wherein the woman’s
words have deeper meanings than what an “ordinary” man could fathom. It could
be said that in most cases, a man wants things in “black and white” while a
woman usually wants things in several shades or tints, even if it is just black
and white.
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Jealousy
and Flirtation (by Haynes King, a French artist)
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Women, in
contrast to men, could be very ambiguous and it is for this reason why the
famous line, “Women are from Venus and men are from Mars” somehow rings true.
This basically translates to the fact that the unequivocal language of men is
different from how women speak which often contains double meanings. This is
rather confusing for guys and could certainly lead to a series of
misunderstandings especially if you are not aware of the true complexity behind
the women’s verbal and body language.
As a
result, men have been stereotyped as the insensitive ones. Not that you can
really blame them. It is just a matter of understanding both sexes the right
way. Men are very easy to comprehend since they usually mean what they say
while women most often prevaricate. So if you really want to know what is going
on in the minds of women, then you need to recognize how they truly communicate
by making a little bit of effort to study their ways and manners of speech.
Here are some important and astonishing information about the language of
women.
